By Weldon Tisdale, Chaplain

As Trinity Woods celebrates July and joins the nation in marking America’s 250th birthday, it is fitting to remember that great things often begin in quiet, unassuming ways. A nation, a community, a calling, a life of faith, all are shaped by beginnings that may seem small at first glance. Jesus reminds us of that truth in the parable of the mustard seed (Matthew 13: 31-32).

“The kingdom of heaven is like a mustard seed,” He says. In the original Greek, the word kokkos refers to a tiny grain, something so small it could easily be overlooked. Yet that little seed carries within it the power of future growth. What looks insignificant is not empty. What appears small is not without promise.

The same is true in our own lives. In biblical thought, a seed is never just a seed. The Hebrew word zera carries the sense of offspring, future, and promise. A seed is not only what is planted; it is what is carried forward. Hidden inside the smallest beginning is the possibility of fruit, shelter, and blessing.

Jesus says the mustard seed grows until it becomes large enough for the birds of the air to come and rest in its branches. That image is deliberate. In Scripture, great trees often represent kingdoms and places of refuge. But the mustard seed was not a noble cedar. It was ordinary, fast-growing, and even a little wild. By choosing this image, Jesus teaches us that the Kingdom of God does not always look polished or predictable. It begins quietly, grows unexpectedly, and spreads farther than anyone imagined.

Sometimes we dismiss small things: a kind word, a prayer whispered in the morning, a decision to forgive, a new habit, a fresh commitment, a seed of hope in a difficult season. Yet the parable tells us not to despise small beginnings. What seems minor today may become a place of shelter tomorrow. What appears hidden now may one day bless many.

As we celebrate America’s 250th birthday this July, we are reminded that both nations and lives are shaped by beginnings. Small beginnings are still beginnings. Seeds still grow. Prayers still matter. Faithful work still bears fruit. And in God’s hands, even the smallest start can become something greater than we ever expected.

So let us honor the past, live faithfully in the present, and trust God with the future. The seed is small, but the promise is not.

By Bonnie Polak, VP Philanthropy and Community Engagement

Summer is a season for growth, and at Trinity Woods, learning never takes a vacation. Trinity Woods’ Summer School program is celebrating its 10th year of bringing residents together through engaging classes, meaningful conversations, and new experiences.

This year’s Summer School features 13 diverse classes, all taught by residents, designed to inspire curiosity and encourage lifelong learning. Topics range from current issues such as Artificial Intelligence and Climate Change to hands-on experiences like Make a Bamboo Flute, Junk Journals, and Gardening with Nature. Residents can also explore history, retirement planning, games, and creative arts through classes including History of Lace, Memories of Route 66, Euchre Card Game, and Sculpted Threads: What & How?

“Summer School is one of the highlights of the year because it gives residents the opportunity to explore new interests and share experiences with one another,” said Garrett Lee, Trinity Woods CEO. “The enthusiasm and engagement we see each summer are truly inspiring.”

More than just education, Summer School fosters connection among residents. Classes provide opportunities to meet neighbors, exchange ideas, and build friendships in a welcoming environment.

“Learning together creates a sense of community,” said Irene Brown, Life Enrichment Coordinator. “Residents come for the classes, but they often leave with new friendships and a renewed sense of purpose.”

From understanding the role of a poll worker to exploring ageism, faith, retirement security, and local history, Summer School offers something for everyone. The program supports both intellectual growth and social wellness, helping residents stay engaged, active, and connected.

As Trinity Woods celebrates a decade of Summer School, the program continues to demonstrate that learning is a lifelong adventure—and one best shared with friends.

Estate planning is one of the greatest gifts we can leave our loved ones. It’s more than deciding who receives what — it’s about protecting family, preserving assets, and ensuring your wishes are carried out with clarity and care. A recent guide outlining “11 Estate Planning Missteps” highlights common mistakes families make and practical solutions to help avoid them.

1. Relying on “I love you” wills. Solution: Consider a revocable trust for more flexibility and probate avoidance.

2. Overlooking jointly owned property. Solution: Ensure assets are properly titled to support your estate plan.

3. Adding children as joint owners on accounts or property. Solution: Use transfer-on-death (TOD) beneficiary designations instead.

4. Creating a trust without trustee replacement provisions. Solution: Include flexibility for changing trustees if needed.

5. Ignoring community property laws. Solution: Understand how state laws may affect asset transfers.

6. Not building flexibility into trusts. Solution: Consider appointing a trust protector for future adjustments.

7. Failing to start a gifting program. Solution: Explore gifting strategies that reduce taxable estates.

8. Overlooking life insurance in tax planning. Solution: Review ownership and beneficiary structures carefully.

9. Treating all children exactly equally. Solution: Tailor inheritance plans to each heir’s unique needs.

10. Not planning for illiquid assets. Solution: Use life insurance or other strategies to provide liquidity.

11. Failing to coordinate the overall estate plan. Solution: Regularly review documents, beneficiaries, and funding details.

The biggest takeaway? Estate plans should be reviewed regularly. Life changes, laws evolve, and family circumstances shift over time. Taking steps now can provide peace of mind for both you and your loved ones in the future. If you are interested in working on your estate plan, contact Bonnie Polak, VP of Philanthropy and Community Engagement at bpolak@trintywoodstulsa.com.

Article source: The Advancement Group

By Weldon Tisdale, Chaplain

In Scripture, the number seventy often marks a season shaped and completed by God. It is a number that speaks of fulfillment, purpose, and divine faithfulness over time. As Trinity Woods celebrates 70 years of ministry, this biblical theme offers a meaningful lens through which to reflect on this milestone.

Throughout the Bible, seventy appears at pivotal moments. Israel experienced seventy years of exile in Babylon—a difficult season, yet one that God used for renewal and eventual restoration. When those years were complete, God brought His people home, reminding them that He had never forgotten His promises. Seventy, then, became a testimony that even in long seasons, God is still at work.

In another moment, Moses appointed seventy elders to help lead and care for the people. God shared His Spirit among them, showing that His work is carried forward through community. Likewise, in the New Testament, Jesus sent out seventy disciples to serve and share the good news. Once again, seventy represents not just time, but purpose and people called together and sent out in faith.

In many ways, the 70-year journey of Trinity Woods reflects these same truths. Since its founding in 1956, this community has been a place of care, connection, and Christ-centered service. Generations of residents, employees, and leaders have shared in its mission, carrying forward a legacy built on compassion and faith.

Like the biblical examples, these seventy years tell a story of God’s sustaining presence. Through seasons of growth, challenge, joy, and loss, God has remained faithful. Lives have been touched, relationships have been formed, and a strong sense of community has flourished.

“TO EVERYTHING THERE IS A SEASON AND A TIME TO EVERY PURPOSE UNDER HEAVEN.” Book of Ecclesiastes

Psalm 90 reminds us that a lifetime is often measured in seventy years. In that sense, Trinity Woods has reached a remarkable milestone: a full season of ministry. Yet this is not simply a conclusion; it is a continuation. The same God who has guided each step over the past seventy years will continue to lead into the future.

As we celebrate this anniversary, we give thanks for what has been and look forward with hope to what is to come. Seventy years stands as a witness to one enduring truth: God is faithful, and His work is never finished.

By Lupina Fry, Wellness Nurse

Talking with someone who has dementia can be difficult, but it is possible to have meaningful conversations. At Trinity Woods,
we work to be a respectful, safe, and informed community. We strive to support people living with dementia and their families,
reduce stigma, offer helpful options, and adapt our spaces so everyone feels included. Here are some practical ways to have positive, respectful conversations with people living with dementia:

1. APPROACH WITH KINDNESS AND PATIENCE. Be kind and patient and speak in a friendly tone. Smile, make eye contact,
and call them by the name they like. Give them plenty of time to think and reply.

2. KEEP IT SIMPLE AND CLEAR. Speak slowly and use short, clear sentences. Stay away from complicated questions or topics. If needed, repeat what you said using different words, but do not ask them to remember things. Questions like, “Remember me?” or “Remember we used to…?” can be too much for someone with memory problems.

3. LISTEN ATTENTIVELY. Give them your full attention and listen without interrupting. Pay attention to their facial expressions and gestures, as these can show how they feel or what they need.

4. STAY POSITIVE AND RESPECTFUL. Talk about positive things and, if it feels right, share your own good memories. Do not correct or argue about facts. Instead, recognize their feelings and gently guide the conversation if needed.

5. USE VISUAL AND PHYSICAL CUES. Using gestures, pictures, or familiar objects can help you get your message across, but do not expect them to remember. Approach with words first. Use gentle touch only after a connection is made.

6. REDIRECT WITH COMPASSION. Watch their face and body language to see how they are feeling. If they seem anxious,
gently guide them to something calming or interesting. You could ask if they want coffee, a snack, or to sit and talk.

7. FIND SOME HELP. If you cannot help someone who is upset, ask for help. Find someone in charge or another person who
can assist.

Remaining socially connected is vital for people living with dementia and their care partners because it supports quality of life and enhances health and well-being.

By using these tips, you can help make our community more supportive. Treating others the way you would like to be treated is always a good rule to follow when communicating with people living with dementia as well as others in our community. For more tips on communicating with people living with dementia, go to the Alzheimer’s Association website.

This year Trinity Woods will celebrate a remarkable milestone — 70 years of serving older adults and enriching lives in the Tulsa community. On June 25 at 10:30 a.m. we invite residents, families, team members, and community partners to gather for a special
anniversary brunch honoring the organization’s legacy of compassionate care, innovation, and community impact since its founding in 1956.

The celebration will reflect on seven decades of growth and meaningful service while looking ahead to the future of senior living at Trinity Woods. Special recognition will be given to the many individuals and supporters whose dedication has shaped Trinity Woods over the years.

“Our 70th Anniversary is more than a celebration of time — it is a celebration of people,” said Garrett Lee, Trinity Woods CEO. “For seven decades, Trinity Woods has remained committed to creating a vibrant community where seniors can thrive with dignity, purpose, and connection. We are honored to continue that mission today.”

Since opening its doors in 1956, Trinity Woods has continually evolved to meet the changing needs of older adults while maintaining its faith-based mission and resident-centered values. From pioneering wellness programs to expanding opportunities for lifelong learning and community involvement, the organization has remained focused on enhancing quality of life for every resident it serves.

Legislative officials and community leaders are expected to attend the brunch as Trinity Woods highlights its long-standing contributions to the senior living industry, charitable outreach, and community engagement throughout Tulsa and beyond.
“As we celebrate our history, we are equally excited about the future,” said Lee. “The strength of Trinity Woods has always been rooted in community, compassion, and a shared commitment to serving others.”

The anniversary brunch promises to be both a joyful celebration and a meaningful tribute to the generations who have made Trinity Woods a trusted and beloved part of the Tulsa community for 70 years.

For more information please call 918-346-6671 or email: info@trinitywoodstulsa.com.

Home isn’t just where you live—it’s a place to put down roots, make connections, and build a loving family. At Trinity Woods, this warm sense of community draws people in and gives them a place to call home. For Karen Tucker and Barbara West, this enduring connection and care is woven into every batch of cookies they bake in the communal kitchen that once served their mothers.

Karen’s mother, Mary, came to Trinity Woods in 2008 after a bout of acute pancreatitis and other physical challenges made it clear she could not live by herself any longer. The warm welcome from staff and fellow community members eased Mary’s transition into her new living space, and Karen was thrilled with the friendly, high-quality care her mother received.

When the Health Center where Mary lived converted to a house model with centrally located kitchens a few years later, Karen had a great idea: Why not bake cookies there, and let it be an event for everyone living on Mary’s hallway? She brought cookie cutters and supplies that her mother used to bake with and set about making homemade treats for everyone.

Barbara’s mother, Gena, who had dementia, came to Trinity Woods in 2013, decades after Gena‘s sister and brother-in-law had lived in one of the villa homes. “When it was time for Mom to come here, I thought it would be the best thing for her,” Barbara said. “I knew she’d recognize this place and feel at home.”

Karen and Barbara met for the first time in the communal kitchen. While visiting Gena one day, Barbara met Karen and they connected over flour-dusted hands, decorative sprinkles, and found family. Soon, Barbara began showing up to help Karen bake. Even though Karen and Barbara’s mothers have since passed away, they still consider Trinity Woods a second home. They visit the Health Center four times a year to bake, decorate, and serve trays of delicious cookies for all to enjoy. Residents stop by, have coffee and fresh cookies, and chat with each other, Barbara, Karen, and team members.

Making cookies remains a special way for these two ladies to honor their mothers’ memories. “I still think I see my mother there every time,” Barbara says. “I’m doing it for her.”

Karen agrees, appreciating the opportunity to stay connected to a community that was so helpful to her mother in her later years. “Baking cookies is a way for us to give back,” Karen says, “but it also gives to us. We have become friends. We both enjoy meeting the residents. This is just a little giving back.”