By Weldon Tisdale, Chaplain

June is Men’s Health Awareness Month. It is also the month we celebrate Father’s Day. Therefore, we take this opportunity to celebrate and honor the men in our lives—fathers, grandfathers, brothers, uncles, husbands, and friends—who walk in faith and lead by example. This month we reflect on the biblical principles that guide and inspire godly men. However, this is not just for godly men but for anyone in Christ.

1. Strength and Courage: The Bible calls men to be strong and courageous. In Joshua 1:9, we read, “Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.” This verse reminds us that true strength comes from
trusting in God’s presence and guidance.

2. Leadership and Service: Godly men are called to lead with humility and serve with love. In Mark 10:45, Jesus sets the ultimate example: “For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.” Men who follow Christ’s example lead by serving others, putting the needs of their families and communities above their own.

3. Faithfulness and Integrity: Proverbs 20:7 tells us, “The righteous lead blameless lives; blessed are their children after them.” A man of faithfulness and integrity sets a strong foundation for his family. His commitment to living a righteous life blesses not only his own path but also the generations that follow.

4. Wisdom and Understanding: James 1:5 encourages us, “If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you.” Godly men seek wisdom from the Lord, understanding that true knowledge and discernment come from Him. They make decisions rooted in prayer and scripture.

This special men’s month let’s honor the men who strive to live according to the Word of God. Their faith, strength, and love are a testament to the power of a life rooted in Christ. May we all be inspired by their example and continue to support and encourage one another in our walk with the Lord.

Wishing you all a blessed and joyful June!

At Trinity Woods, exceptional care and vibrant community living go hand in hand—and at the heart of that experience is the dedicated Member Services team. This group of professionals plays a vital role in ensuring every resident feels welcomed, supported, and engaged.

“The Member Services team is often the first point of contact for residents and their families once they move in,” said Carri Matheson, Director of Member Services. “Whether it’s answering questions or offering a friendly ear, our team’s goal is to ensure that each interaction is personal and meaningful.
We truly want to help residents feel at home.”

From managing move-ins to assisting with daily reservations and other needs, the Member Services team is committed to making life easier and more enjoyable for everyone in the Trinity Woods community. Their attention to detail and compassionate approach help streamline daily living and provide peace of mind for both residents and their loved ones.

One of their key responsibilities includes helping residents stay connected to events, wellness programs, and social opportunities throughout the community. They provide updates and offer gentle reminders so that no one misses out on the activities they enjoy most.

What truly sets this team apart is their passion. Each team member brings empathy, professionalism, and a spirit of service to their role, creating an atmosphere where residents feel valued and heard. Their work not only enhances the quality of daily life but also builds the trust and connection that make Trinity Woods such a special place to live.

In every phone call, conversation, and act of service, the Member Services team embodies the Trinity Woods mission: to provide purposeful living in a supportive, enriching environment. For residents and their families, they are more than just staff—they’re a vital part of the Trinity Woods family.

Member Services Team includes: Kim Scott, Carri Matheson, Lori Morton, Cliff Mosley, Adrienne Rider, Dwayne Crawley, Caitlin Couch, and Clarence Elliot.

By Garrett Lee, New Trinity Woods CEO

May 6th marks the completion of my first year as the CEO of Trinity Woods. At the start of each new
year, I’m usually compelled by a ‘word’ or ‘phrase of the year’. This year, my word is ELEVATE. Often, the
word is inspired by events of the previous year.

Elevate has many meanings for me. The word elevate means to rise or to lift up. For example, I can
elevate my praise and adoration to God. What elevating means for Trinity Woods hits several areas.
While this list is not exhaustive and certainly other areas are noteworthy, these are areas that I believe
‘move the needle’ for Trinity Woods as we elevate in each of them:

Leadership – Pastor Craig Groeschel says, “when the leader gets better, everyone gets better.” We want
to elevate our leadership. We launched several initiatives to strengthen our leadership skills including the
restructuring of our employee training and meeting quarterly as a full management team.

Culture – The culture of our community is critical. Why? It is the component of community life that
most impacts the resident and employee experience and creates home. This is why we have prioritized
renewed energy around fostering a Culture of Courtesy in our organization. We must continue valuing
our diverse backgrounds and perspectives. What makes us different from each other makes us vibrant
and unique – that is culture. We must continue elevating our service standards, in order to deliver the
highest level of hospitality-minded customer service possible.

Growth – Organizations are like plants. If you aren’t growing, you’re dying. While growth does not always
necessarily involve ‘bricks and mortar,’ (which is the image most of us have in our minds), it can describe
the need to elevate in certain areas. For Trinity Woods, growth is one of the four main pillars of our
strategic plan. We want to grow in operational areas like service, financials, and membership. We also
know there are opportunities that do involve bricks and mortar for new buildings, and refurbishment.

So, as I reflect and think about the future, I elevate the type of leader I want and need to be; striving to
posture myself and our organization from a faith-filled place of servanthood. I look forward to serving in
such a way that continues to elevate Trinity Woods.

Blessings,
Garrett Lee, Trinity Woods CEO

By Alison McMilan, Wellness Manager

Every year as the weather warms, flowers bloom, and trees fill out with leaves, the Trinity Woods Wellness Team and the Wellness Advisory Council host an outdoor celebration for our community members to welcome warmer weather and foster connections.

With live music in the background, it’s easy to enjoy a delicious grilled hamburger or hot dog with tasty sides and toppings, and cool refreshing drinks while chatting and laughing with your friends under shade of the porte-cochere of the Community Life Center.

The fun continues with several entertaining lawn games to play like giant Connect 4, foam axe tossing, and more! Challenge your neighbor, try a new game, and enjoy soaking up the sun before the annual shuffleboard and cornhole tournaments start. Will the previous year’s winners defend their titles, or will a new team claim victory? There is only one way to find out! Join us for the Spring Fling held on
Thursday May 22nd!

Trinity Woods is going to the dogs—in the best way possible! The community is thrilled to announce the
creation of a brand-new dog park, a vibrant space designed for residents and their furry companions to
enjoy together.

The fenced-in area features grassy patches, shaded benches, and plenty of room for dogs to run, play,
and socialize. It was created in response to resident feedback and a fundraising campaign.

“Our residents love their pets—they’re family,” said Garrett Lee, Trinity Woods CEO. “We wanted to create a safe, welcoming space where both residents and dogs can get fresh air, exercise, and connect with others.”

The dog park is scheduled to open in June. It will be open daily from sunrise to sunset and have a waste
station and water fountain. Watch for information about a ribbon-cutting ceremony. All are welcome to
attend.

With wagging tails and happy hearts, Trinity Woods continues its efforts to support an active, fulfilling
lifestyle for every resident—four-legged ones included.

By Weldon Tisdale, Chaplain

As we welcome the month of May, we are reminded of the abundant blessings and opportunities that God has placed before us. This month, we reflect on the profound truth that each of us is chosen for greatness. This theme is not just a motivational phrase but a divine calling that resonates deeply within our faith.

The Bible is filled with affirmations of our unique calling and purpose. One of the most powerful reminders comes from the Apostle Peter: “But you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, God’s special possession, that you may declare the praises of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light.” (1 Peter 2:9) This verse highlights that we are not only chosen but also set apart for
a divine purpose. We are called to shine God’s light in the world, reflecting His glory through our actions and words.

Throughout the Bible, we see numerous examples of individuals who were chosen for greatness. Consider David, a shepherd boy who became a king, or Esther, an orphan who became a queen and saved her people. Their stories remind us that God often chooses the unlikely and the humble to
accomplish His grand purposes.

To live out your call of greatness:
Embrace Your Identity: Recognize that you are God’s special possession. Your worth and identity are rooted in Him, not in the world’s standards (your title, education, possessions, etc.)

Seek God’s Guidance: Seek God’s direction for your life. Trust that He has a unique plan for you.

Serve Others: Greatness in God’s kingdom is often found in serving others. Look for ways to bless and uplift those around you.

Stay Faithful: Persevere in your faith, even when the path is challenging. Remember that God equips those He calls.

We are collectively chosen to make a difference. Let us support and encourage one another in our individual and collective callings. Together, we can achieve great things for God’s kingdom. Embrace the truth that we are chosen for greatness. Let this knowledge inspire us to live boldly and faithfully, knowing that God has a purpose for each of us. May we shine His light brightly, bringing hope and love to all as we continually serve in the spirit of Christ.

Personal Training Offerings:
This April, the Spann Wellness Center is excited to announce Personal Training offerings for residents and employees! Through personal training, our expert fitness professionals will work with you to create an individualized program to meet your needs and help move you closer to meeting your wellness goals.

Whether you’re a beginner looking for a place to start or an experienced regular, looking for that next step forward, our team is here to boost your short-term or long-term program.

So, what would it look like? It’s up to you! Each program is individually tailored for each client’s needs – there’s no cookie cutter approach here! You will meet with one of our trainers who will review specifics about your wellness goals and history, and create a personalized program geared toward meeting your goals. From improving strength and endurance to practicing balance exercises and flexibility training and more, we’ve got you covered.

With a variety of different training packages available to choose from, your Spann Wellness Team is excited to help you meet your goals!

Meet the trainers:
Alison McMillan, Wellness Manager – Alison has a master’s degree in Exercise Science from Wichita State University and has been in the fitness industry for almost a decade. She is experienced in working
with many populations including active older adult, bariatric, diabetic, and more. She is eager to work on a one-on-one basis with Trinity Woods residents and employees to help them reach their fitness goals.

Delisa Atkins-Gray, Fitness Supervisor – Delisa has a bachelor’s degree in health and human performance with a minor in Psychology from Northeastern State University. She has years of experience
working with all populations teaching exercise classes. Her motto is “Age is nothing but a number!”

By Bonnie Polak, VP of Philanthropy and Community Engagement

Exciting changes are coming! On March 11th we officially broke ground on a brand new main entrance, marking the beginning of an important transformation for our community. This project is designed to enhance safety, improve traffic flow, and create a more welcoming experience for all visitors.

“This project is about more than just a new entrance—it’s about making a lasting impact on how we serve our community,” said Garrett Lee, Trinity Woods CEO. “It is about recognizing a need, stepping up, and working together to create solutions that make things better not just for our current residents; but for people who will come in the future.”

During the special ceremony, leaders, employees, and community members gathered to celebrate this milestone. This is the first step in bringing the new main entrance of Trinity Woods to life, AND celebrating the power of collective giving and vision. With shovels in hand, we turned dirt for a brighter and safer future.

This project embodies the true spirit of philanthropy—giving back to our community and planning for generations to come. There is not a building on our campus that has been built without someone believing in our mission. That is what makes Trinity Woods so special – neighbor helping neighbor, for nearly 70 years.

This new entrance will feature modern design, improved signage, and position Trinity Woods as a gated community. Construction is expected to be completed by August, with efforts made to minimize disruptions during the process.

To all our donors and partners — thank you for believing in this vision. Your support ensures that this initiative will not only stand as a structure but as a symbol of collaboration, opportunity, and transformation. Through these gates people will come to be served in the spirit of Christ.

Stay tuned for progress updates and thank you for being part of this journey with us!

By Weldon Tisdale, Chaplain

As we enter April, a month of renewal and reflection, and as we prepare for Easter, it is important to acknowledge the profound impact of grief on our lives. Grief is a powerful emotion that touches us all, and while it can be overwhelming, it also holds the potential for deep transformation and healing. One of the most poignant examples of grief in the Bible is the story of Mary, the mother of Jesus.

Mary’s journey through grief is a testament to the strength and resilience of the human spirit. As the mother of Jesus, she experienced unimaginable sorrow as she witnessed the immeasurable suffering and crucifixion of her son. Yet, through her grief, Mary remained steadfast in her faith and trust in God’s plan.

In the Gospel of John, we read about Mary’s presence at the foot of the cross: “When Jesus saw his mother there, and the disciple whom he loved (John) standing nearby, he said to her, ‘Woman, here is your son,’ and to the disciple, ‘Here is your mother’” – John 19:26-27. Even in His final moments, Jesus
acknowledged His mother’s grief and ensured she would be cared for. This act of love and compassion highlights the importance of community and support during times of sorrow.

Mary’s story reminds us that we are never alone in our grief. God is always with us, offering comfort and strength. As we navigate our own journeys through grief, we can find solace in the knowledge that God understands our pain and walks with us every step of the way. Grief, while painful, has the power to transform us in profound ways. It deepens our empathy, strengthens our resilience, and can bring us closer to God.

“What we once enjoyed and deeply loved we can never lose, for all that we love deeply becomes a part of us.” Helen Keller

As we enter April and as we rejoice in the resurrection story of Easter, let us carry with us the wisdom and strength of Mary. Remember to embrace our grief with faith, knowing that it is through these experiences that we learn to appreciate the preciousness of life, the importance of cherishing our loved ones and grow closer to God. Always remain open to the healing process and trust that, in time, we will find peace and renewal.

Trinity Woods is thrilled to introduce you to Marcy Martin, the new Social Services Coordinator to the Health Center! Marcy is originally from Porter, Oklahoma. Marcy brings a wealth of experience and a genuine passion for supporting residents and their families. Her dedication to serving seniors was sparked during her studies at Northeastern State University, where she earned her sociology degree with a minor in gerontology. When asked what she loves most about working in senior living, she says “getting to make a difference.”

“At Trinity Woods, I’m looking forward to bringing my set of skills and experience to the position and focusing on resident and family relationships,” said Marcy. Please stop by her office and welcome her!

As we enter the month of Easter I love to hear the legend of the Dogwood Tree. As legend tells us it was once very large and because its wood was strong and sturdy, it provided building material for a variety of purposes. According to the story, it was the Dogwood Tree that provided the wood used to build the cross on which Jesus was crucified.

Because of its role in the crucifixion, it is said that God both cursed and blessed the tree. It was cursed to be small forever, so it would never grow large enough to be used again as a cross for a crucifixion. Its branches would be narrow and crooked, which makes it no good for building. At the same time, however, the tree was blessed so it would produce beautiful flowers each spring, just in time for Easter.

To remember God’s promise to the tree, it is said He gave it a few traits so that whoever looks upon it will never forget. For example, the petals form the shape of a cross. Upon close examination, the blooms of the tree always have four petals. The middle of the dogwood flower is a tight grouping that resembles a crown of thorns. And the tips of each of the petals are indented, as if they bear a nail dent. There are even colors in the petals that bring to mind the drops of blood that spilled during the crucifixion.

The Legend of the Dogwood Tree. Happy Easter!