By Weldon Tisdale, Chaplain

As we enter April, a month of renewal and reflection, and as we prepare for Easter, it is important to acknowledge the profound impact of grief on our lives. Grief is a powerful emotion that touches us all, and while it can be overwhelming, it also holds the potential for deep transformation and healing. One of the most poignant examples of grief in the Bible is the story of Mary, the mother of Jesus.

Mary’s journey through grief is a testament to the strength and resilience of the human spirit. As the mother of Jesus, she experienced unimaginable sorrow as she witnessed the immeasurable suffering and crucifixion of her son. Yet, through her grief, Mary remained steadfast in her faith and trust in God’s plan.

In the Gospel of John, we read about Mary’s presence at the foot of the cross: “When Jesus saw his mother there, and the disciple whom he loved (John) standing nearby, he said to her, ‘Woman, here is your son,’ and to the disciple, ‘Here is your mother’” – John 19:26-27. Even in His final moments, Jesus
acknowledged His mother’s grief and ensured she would be cared for. This act of love and compassion highlights the importance of community and support during times of sorrow.

Mary’s story reminds us that we are never alone in our grief. God is always with us, offering comfort and strength. As we navigate our own journeys through grief, we can find solace in the knowledge that God understands our pain and walks with us every step of the way. Grief, while painful, has the power to transform us in profound ways. It deepens our empathy, strengthens our resilience, and can bring us closer to God.

“What we once enjoyed and deeply loved we can never lose, for all that we love deeply becomes a part of us.” Helen Keller

As we enter April and as we rejoice in the resurrection story of Easter, let us carry with us the wisdom and strength of Mary. Remember to embrace our grief with faith, knowing that it is through these experiences that we learn to appreciate the preciousness of life, the importance of cherishing our loved ones and grow closer to God. Always remain open to the healing process and trust that, in time, we will find peace and renewal.