March Issue of The Trail Mix

In This Issue: March at Trinity Woods: Learning, Connection, and New Beginnings

Spring is arriving at Trinity Woods, bringing opportunities for learning, wellness, faith, and community connection. The March edition of The Trail Mix highlights upcoming events, new neighbors, and the many ways residents continue to grow and thrive together.

Planning for the Future: Brunch & Learn Workshop

This month features a special Brunch & Learn on March 17, designed to help residents better understand recent tax law changes and retirement planning strategies. Led by financial expert Mark Loeber, the free workshop will break down how new legislation may impact taxes, Social Security, Medicare, charitable giving, and long-term financial planning. The event, presented in partnership with the Tulsa Community Foundation, combines practical education with a relaxed, social setting.

A Season of Spiritual Renewal

Chaplain Weldon Tisdale reflects on March as a season of renewal and growth, encouraging residents to “sow spiritual seeds” through faith, service, and encouragement. Holy Week services, held March 30 through April 3, will offer daily worship and fellowship opportunities for the community.

Wellness and Purposeful Living

Trinity Woods continues to emphasize whole-person wellness — supporting physical, emotional, intellectual, social, and spiritual health. Wellness Nurse Lupina Fry shares that residents often move to Trinity Woods seeking peace of mind, meaningful relationships, and maintenance-free living. Staying engaged through activities and relationships helps promote independence, resilience, and overall well-being.

Engaging Events and Lifelong Learning

March offers a full calendar of enriching programs, including:

  • A weather presentation with longtime Oklahoma meteorologist Travis Meyer
  • A powerful personal story from Afghan refugee and community leader Omid Mobarezpoor
  • A piano recital featuring young musician Daniel Hsieh
  • Supper & A Show with Cherokee musician Agalisiga “Chuj” Mackey

These events reflect Trinity Woods’ commitment to lifelong learning, culture, and shared experiences.

Celebrating Community

The newsletter also recognizes staff members who exemplify the Trinity Woods mission through exceptional service, celebrates resident milestones, and shares seasonal fun facts to welcome the arrival of spring.

At its heart, March at Trinity Woods is about renewal — planning wisely, nurturing wellness, deepening faith, and building meaningful connections that make community life flourish.

Download the March issue of The Trail Mix.

Tin Man Society: A Legacy of Many!

A good man brings good things out of the good stored up in his heart

By Bonnie Polak, VP of Philanthropy and Community Engagement

It has often been said that there is not a building on campus that would not be here if it weren’t for the generosity of others. In fact, many of the people who made many of our campus improvements and wellness programs possible never even saw their gifts come to fruition. That’s the power of our community and of legacy giving.

Legacy giving is a powerful way to support the mission of a nonprofit beyond your lifetime — ensuring that your values continue to make an impact for future generations. At Trinity Woods, this enduring form of philanthropy is honored through the Tin Man Society, a community of donors who have chosen to leave a lasting legacy through planned giving.

Legacy gifts, also called planned gifts, allow individuals to make significant contributions to a nonprofit’s future without affecting their current lifestyle. These gifts can be arranged through your estate plan, will, trust, or through financial tools such as charitable gift annuities and remainder trusts. They may also include beneficiary designations on life insurance, retirement accounts, assignment of membership fee refund or other assets.

When you commit a legacy gift to Trinity Woods — you become part of the Tin Man Society. This society recognizes individuals and families who have pledged to support the ongoing mission and ministry of Trinity Woods well into the future. Members are celebrated for their foresight and generosity in helping ensure that Trinity Woods remains a place where elders thrive in community, dignity, purpose and are served in the spirit of Christ.

Legacy giving isn’t just about financial support — it’s about leaving a meaningful mark. Your planned gift can help provide affordable, compassionate care, enhance campus life, and sustain programs that enrich the lives of residents who may never know you personally but will benefit profoundly from your kindness.

By joining the Tin Man Society, you embed your legacy in the heart of Trinity Woods’ mission — ensuring that its spirit of generosity lives on for years to come. For more information about the Trinity Woods Tin Man Society, contact Bonnie Polak at 918.346.6639 or bpolak@trinitywoodstulsa.com.

Black History Month

By Weldon Tisdale, Chaplain

February brings with it Black History Month, a time set aside to honor the stories, struggles, and triumphs of African Americans whose contributions have shaped our nation in ways both visible and unseen. While it began as “Negro History Week” in the 1920s, thanks to historian Carter G. Woodson, it has grown into
a monthlong celebration that invites all of us to pause, reflect, and learn.

For communities like ours, where many individuals may not have grown up hearing these stories firsthand, Black History Month offers a chance to broaden our perspective and appreciate the creativity and resilience that enriches American life. It’s not about guilt or division, it’s about connection, curiosity, and gratitude.

Take Garrett Morgan, for instance. His invention of the three light traffic signal literally keeps us safe every day. Dr. Patricia Bath’s groundbreaking work in ophthalmology gave the world a device to treat cataracts, restoring sight to millions. George Washington Carver, often remembered for peanuts, actually
revolutionized agriculture by finding hundreds of new uses for crops, helping farmers thrive.

Lewis Latimer, working alongside Edison and Bell, improved the filament in light bulbs, making electric lighting practical for homes across the country. And Madam C.J. Walker, a visionary entrepreneur, created hair care products for Black women and became one of America’s first female self-made millionaires. These stories remind us that innovation knows no boundaries of race or background—it springs from talent, vision, and determination.

So why highlight these names in our community newsletter? Because Black History Month isn’t just about remembering the past, it’s about recognizing how deeply interconnected our lives are. Every time we stop safely at a traffic light, flip on a lamp, or hear of a woman breaking barriers in business, we’re touching
legacies that began in African American hands.

This February, let’s approach Black History Month with openness and curiosity. Read a story, share a name, or simply pause to appreciate the everyday gifts we’ve inherited. In doing so, we honor not only Black history, but American history and we strengthen the bonds of community that make life richer for
us all.

The Seven Dimensions of Wellness and Your Heart

By Alison Guerrero, Wellness Professional

Sometimes when I think of the Seven Dimensions of Wellness (Physical, Emotional, Social, Intellectual, Vocational, Environmental, Spiritual,) I think of them separately, as entities wholly of their own category. Physical is exercise, Intellectual is learning, Vocational is working, so on and so forth. But then in the moments when I’m spending time with my loved ones, when I’m working on a project at work, or when I’ve finished a difficult workout, I realize just how the dimensions really are connected. How? You might be asking. Through the heart, of course.

Each dimension has its own impact on the heart by mitigating the stresses in our life and helping our hearts feel both healthy and whole. Stress sends signals to the body to release inflammation and hormones that contribute to elevated blood pressure, blood sugar, heart rate, cholesterol and plaque,
and irregular heartbeats. All of that can be detrimental to the heart’s effective function, and lead to an increased risk of coronary artery disease, heart attack, stroke, and death. Let’s see how each dimension can ease stress:

PHYSICAL: Regular exercise, healthy diet, and adequate sleep improve cardiovascular function by reducing blood pressure, releasing feel-good hormones, reducing heart rate, and strengthening the heart.

EMOTIONAL: Becoming aware of and understanding your emotions, learning and practicing healthy coping skills like journaling, meditation, and more can reduce stress.

SOCIAL: Finding strong social and community connections help combat the stress of loneliness and increases a sense of belonging.

INTELLECTUAL: Expanding knowledge and skills, flexing your brain and exploring new concepts to keep our brain engaged provides needed distraction from stressors.

VOCATIONAL: Finding purpose and satisfaction through work like volunteering for your favorite nonprofit
or teaching skills to those around you can be a source of strength when faced with stress.

ENVIRONMENTAL: Stress reduction also comes from working toward healthier surroundings, small scale and large, through recycling, pollution reduction, cleaning and caring for your community around you, and more.

SPIRITUAL: Participating in activities that support your beliefs and values, finding purpose and meaning with or without organized religion help combat the stresses of life.

Since February is Heart Health Month, it’s the perfect time to take steps to fulfill the Seven Dimensions of Wellness in an effort to help support your heart health!

Poached Salmon & Avocado Lettuce Wraps Recipe

Enjoy this heart healthy recipe from the kitchen of our very own Richard Applegate, Trinity Woods Director of Food Service.

• 6oz Fresh Salmon Filet (skinless)

• 1 Medium Avocado

• 1oz Extra Virgin Olive Oil

• Juice from 1 Lemon

• Pinch of no salt season (Mrs. Dash works well)

• 1 Small Head of Butter Lettuce

Instructions:
Poach salmon in simmering water for 10-12 minutes. Check with a probe
thermometer to ensure internal temperature is at least 145 degrees.

Place salmon in refrigerator to cool off for around 20 minutes. Split avocado
in half and remove pit, scoop from the rind into a mixing bowl.

Add salmon to avocado, season with no salt seasoning, add olive oil and
lemon juice. Carefully mix while keeping the salmon a little chunky.

Place a couple of ounces of the mixture in lettuce leaves and roll. Enjoy!

February STARS Employee of the Month

Haley Bolton – Housekeeping Team

Start Date: July 2025
Born: Germany
Raised: Florida, Texas and Oklahoma
Wanted to be as a Kid: A Mom
Favorite Sport: Bowling
One Meal Forever: Steak and Shellfish
Described by Friends: Sweet and Bubbly
Hobbies: Crocheting, Knitting and Fishing
First Job: McDonalds
Favorite Holiday: Halloween
Favorite Quote: Treat Others the Way You Want to Be Treated
Family Recipe: Granny’s Queso
First Car: Ford Tempo
Favorite Movie: Bye, Bye, Birdie
Favorite Book: Green Eggs & Ham by Dr. Suess
Collects: Porcelain Dolls
Motivated By: Being Helpful to Others
Free Time: Spending Time with Family and Going Fishing
Family: Married with Four Kids
What her supervisor says: “Haley brightens up every room she walks in. She’s a joy to have around. Haley is a dedicated, hard worker. It’s a blessing to have her as a member of our team.” Amy McDaniel, Housekeeping Manager

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