In early 2025, Trinity Woods received a couple generous gifts to help fund what has become known as the “Felt House Facelift.” Along with additional capital funds, we spent several months planning the renovation, which began in October. Felt House members contributed ideas to certain design elements
and shared their excitement about the improvements to their home’s appearance.

We are truly fortunate to have such a distinctive living option as Felt House. Its charming character, central location, comfortable scale, and affordable lifestyle give residents the opportunity to fully engaged in campus life. Felt House residents enjoy the many amenities of Trinity Woods and remain close to friends in the Holliman Center and the Health Center.

Our goal for the renovation was to give the Felt House lobbies and entrances a distinct look and feel—more residential in nature and set it apart from the nearby healthcare areas. One of the most practical enhancements is the addition of a new mailroom, conveniently located in the first-floor lobby between
the Felt House and Holliman Center entrances.

We believe these updates have created a warmer, more inviting experience for residents and visitors alike. The improvements further strengthen Felt House’s appeal for future residents and, most importantly, enhance the quality of life for those who call it home.

By Lupina Fry, Wellness Nurse

One of my favorite Christmas memories as a kid was when my oldest brother came home from Army basic training, his arms overflowing with gifts for us younger kids. I can’t recall a single present he brought, but I can still feel the warmth of his dimpled smile and the strength of his hug as I leapt into his arms. Those are the moments that linger for decades. As we grow older, material things lose their shine. We can buy what we need, and possessions become less meaningful. But time never loses its worth. With age, we realize how precious and limited time really is. It’s in these moments that we truly see how presence outshines any physical present.

Several studies have shown that spending money on an experience, rather than buying a product, makes us happier. It doesn’t have to cost a lot; it’s about investing time rather than money. Here are a few ways to make this Christmas season truly special with your loved ones.

Embrace the magic of the holidays: wander through the neighborhood to admire twinkling lights, set aside time to decorate the tree together, or savor mugs of cocoa as a family. Try crafting ornaments or handmade cards to send to friends, turning simple moments into cherished traditions. Instead of
wrapping up another present, offer the promise of time spent together. Imagine gifting a basket with your favorite recipe on a lovely card, the main ingredients tucked inside, and a promise to cook the dish together. For a friend who loves puzzles, a basket with a charming puzzle and an IOU for a cozy afternoon spent piecing it together. Or fill a basket with a beautiful teapot, a selection of teas, and a “date” to share a cup with good conversation. A blank photo album paired with a promise to sort through those old photos and fill its pages together can spark laughter and nostalgia. Consider family passes to the zoo or amusement park, or tickets to a concert or theater show. Those who have enjoyed a rich, full life may not need another trinket, but they will always treasure time with someone they love. The real gift is making memories that outlast any trendy new gadget.

When you create time with loved ones, make those moments count. Be truly present. Look into their eyes as they speak, listen to what’s on their hearts, and keep phones out of sight.

Remember to give yourself that same gift of presence. Carve out time for the things that bring you joy, whether it is a peaceful walk outdoors, preparing a delicious meal to share, or sitting quietly with your Bible and a warm cup of coffee, simply soaking up the moment. Giving time, both to others and to yourself, is the most generous act of caring. This season of goodwill is for everyone, including you.

By Weldon Tisdale, Chaplain

As the Advent season unfolds, we are invited to pause and reflect on the profound mystery of the virgin birth and the promise contained in the name Immanuel, God with us. These truths are not simply theological doctrines to be admired from a distance; they are living realities that shape our faith, our community, and our daily lives.

The virgin birth proclaims that salvation is God’s initiative, not humanity’s achievement. Isaiah’s prophecy in Isaiah 7:14, “…The virgin will conceive and give birth to a son and will call him Immanuel,” finds its fulfillment in the Gospel of Matthew, where Jesus is revealed as the Son of God, conceived by the Holy Spirit and born of the virgin Mary. This miracle reminds us that God’s purposes often exceed human wisdom and expectation. Mary’s humble “yes” to God’s call models the posture of faith we are
invited to embody: a willingness to trust that God can do what seems impossible. This truth affirms that ordinary acts of service can become extraordinary channels of grace. It is a reminder that faithful vision often requires trust in God’s surprising ways. It is also a call to generosity that mirrors God’s own gift of His Son. The name Immanuel assures us that God is not distant but present. In Jesus, God entered human vulnerability, dwelling among us in joy and sorrow, in strength and weakness. This means that even in seasons of frailty or grief, we are never alone. It is the comfort of knowing that God walks with us always. For all of us, Immanuel calls us to embody God’s nearness through compassion, listening, and shared worship.

The virgin birth and Immanuel together declare that God’s love is both miraculous and incarnational. Christ came not as a distant ruler but as a Savior who shares our humanity, redeems our sin, and restores our hope. This Advent season, may we prepare room in our hearts and community for Christ’s presence, welcoming Him into our daily lives, our decisions, our caregiving, and our family relationships.

May the peace of Immanuel be your joy this Christmas, and may His presence guide Trinity Woods into the new year with faith, courage, and hope.

We are delighted to welcome Angela Kihega as the new Director of Nursing at Trinity Woods. With
more than 30 years of healthcare experience and a passion to serve, Angela brings a wealth of
knowledge, leadership, and heart to our community.

Angela’s journey in healthcare began as a nurse aide and medical assistant before earning her nursing degrees – first becoming an LPN in 2002 and then an RN in 2003. Her clinical background is both broad and deep, spanning Adult and Geriatric Medicine, Medical/Surgical/Trauma, Oncology, and Hospice/Pain Management. For more than 15 years, she has served in nursing leadership roles, guiding teams with a philosophy rooted in dignity, respect, compassion, and meaningful connection.

“Nursing isn’t just my profession—it’s my calling,” Angela shares, a belief that aligns beautifully with the mission and values of Trinity Woods. She looks forward to partnering with residents, families, and the TW team to continue providing exceptional care in an environment where each person feels seen and supported.

Outside of her professional life, Angela is a proud mother to two daughters, ages 22 and 28, who inspire her daily. In her free time, she enjoys gardening, collecting houseplants, hiking, fishing and boating, traveling, and cheering on her favorite football teams—go Chiefs and go Pokes!

Please join us in welcoming Angela to Trinity Woods. We are thrilled to have her leadership, expertise, and genuine care guiding our nursing team and supporting the residents and families we serve.

By Bonnie Polak, VP of Philanthropy and Community Engagement

The most magical time of the year is nearing, and with it comes one of Trinity Woods’ most beloved traditions – Christmas in the Woods! Soon, residents, families, and employees along with friends will gather for an evening filled with amazing food, festive music, warm fellowship, and the unmistakable joy of the season.

“Christmas in the Woods captures the spirit of who we are as a community-warm, connected, and full of gratitude. I’m looking forward to gathering with everyone to celebrate the season and the joy we share at Trinity Woods,” said Garrett Lee, Trinity Woods CEO.

This year’s celebration promises to deliver the charm and heart that make the event so special. Guests can enjoy a wide variety of entertainment and holiday activities throughout campus. This year we bring back some event favorites – Dave & the Ukeladies, a cheerful Candy Shop, playful Elfie Selfies, and an impressive Railroad Display by the Tulsa Garden Railroad Club. And don’t forget visits with Santa and Mrs. Claus.

Both Charter Oak and Cypress Grille restaurants will feature a special holiday dinner menu, offering a festive feast for residents and guests. The menu includes Lobster Bisque, Carved Prime Rib, Carved Ham, Roasted Potatoes, and Green Beans with Red Bell Peppers-a delicious way to spend the evening. Traditional carolers from the Tulsa Opera will fill both dining venues with festive melodies, adding to the joyful ambiance.

The Community Life Center will be alive with music and nostalgia, featuring a Christmas concert by the Grady Nichols Band. Guests will not want to miss curated displays of Christmas Treasures and specialty trees, and a display of Childhood Toys. New this year we have the golf cart tours of Owens Park and the TW Community Tree featuring ornaments given and made by our very own residents and employees.

As the holiday season approaches, Christmas in the Woods will once again bring the shared sense
of community Trinity Woods has become known for over the years. With music, lights, tradition,
and holiday spirit woven throughout the evening, Christmas in the Woods celebrates the joy,
wonder, and memories for years to come. Make sure to get your tickets now, while supplies last!