November Issue of The Trail Mix

In This Issue: New Main Entrance Grand Opening!

Trinity Woods will celebrate the official ribbon-cutting and dedication of its new main entrance, featuring improved landscaping, a new guard house, and safer access. CEO Garrett Lee emphasize it as a symbol of welcome and community connection.

Also in the issue Chaplain Weldon Tisdale reflects on Faith, Family, and Fellowship—encouraging gratitude and unity rooted in God’s blessings.

Resident Carol Tobler also shares a heartfelt story on how gratitude and community support helped her healing journey after loss.

We welcome new neighbors – Betty and Larry!

November Wellness

Healthy Holiday Eating Tips from Dietitian Amber Carson offers practical “Eat This, Not That” swaps for healthier festive meals, plus portion and balance advice. This month’s featured events include – Tulsa Peoples’ Orchestra Chamber Concert,  a Book Review: “Between Two Fires” by J.D. Colbert and Oklahoma Thanksgiving Celebration & New Member Reception.

Download the November issue of The Trail Mix.

Trinity Woods Host Trunk or Treat!

Thursday, October 30 from 6:15 to 7:15 p.m. in the Community Life Center

This year we are excited to host a Trunk-or-Treat for Trinity Woods’ family and friends. Invite your grandchildren, nieces, nephews, or special children in your life to dress up and show off their costumes. Employees are encouraged to bring their children for this special event! Members can sign up to decorate their car trunk, golf cart or a table (inside the CLC) to pass out candy. Join us for this Trinity Woods family fun night!

Trinity Woods Wellness Audit: Celebrating Strengths, Embracing Opportunities

By Bonnie Polak, VP of Philanthropy and Community Engagement

Trinity Woods recently completed the International Council on Active Aging (ICAA) Wellness Audit, a nationwide review of wellness programs in senior living communities. The results confirm what many of us already know—Trinity Woods has a strong foundation, and we’re excited to keep growing together.

The audit showed that while the word wellness isn’t written into our mission statement, it is woven into the daily life and culture at Trinity Woods.

“Our goal has always been to care for the whole person—mind, body, and spirit,” said Weldon Tisdale, VP of Wellness and Chaplain. “Wellness isn’t just a department; it’s part of who we are as a community.”

Trinity Woods has a dedicated wellness budget, which helps support the many opportunities available to residents. The next step is making sure everyone knows what’s offered and feels encouraged to join in.

Social wellness continues to shine. From family gatherings and community meals to concerts and special events, social activities are among the highest attended. Spiritual and emotional programs, such as prayer gatherings and hobby groups, are also well attended.

“Friendship and connection are at the heart of our community,” stated Tisdale. “We want to build on that spirit by inspiring more participation in physical and intellectual programs too—things like balance classes, book clubs, and current events.”

Residents benefit from fitness programs, our Community Life Center, and diverse wellness professionals. As a community we are open to ways to improve areas that will enhance the residents’ experience and wellness programming.

The audit highlighted Trinity Woods’ top strength as social wellness, while also giving us a roadmap for continued growth in every dimension of wellness.

“This report reminds us how much we’re already doing well,” said Garrett Lee, CEO. “Together, we can continue to grow a community where wellness is more than a program—it’s a way of life.”

October STARS Employee of the Month

Patsy Miller – Housekeeping

Start Date: February 2025
Born and Raised: Tulsa, OK
Favorite Sport: Football
One Meal Forever: Loaded Baked Potato
Hobbies: Gardening and Quilting
First Job: Custodian at Claremore Jr. High
Favorite Holiday: Easter
Favorite Bible Verse: “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me” Philippians 4:13
Family Recipe: Mom’s Pot Roast
Favorite Movie: Penny Serenade
Favorite Book: Are You There God? It’s Me Margaret by Judy Blume
Free Time: Spending Time with my Family
Fun Fact: Enjoys Working on Cars
Family: Married with Four Children and Two Grandchildren What her supervisor says: “Patsy does a wonderful job cleaning for her members. She makes them very happy, and they let me know how wonderful she is. She fit in with the team very quickly and quickly became a wonderful asset to
our department. She is very dependable and a conscientious worker who wants to please the people she cleans for.” – Cathy Green, Housekeeping Manager

Chef Richard’s Pumpkin Roll Recipe

Cake:
¾ Cup AP Flour
½ tsp Baking Soda
½ tsp. Baking Powder
½ tsp. Ground Cinnamon
½ tsp. Pumpkin Pie Spice
¼ tsp. Salt
3 Large Eggs
1 Cup Granulated Sugar
2/3 Cup Canned Pumpkin
1 Cup Chopped Walnuts (Optional)
Powdered Sugar

Filling:
8 oz. Package of Cream Cheese
1 Cup Sifted Powdered Sugar
6 Tbsp. Butter, Softened
1 tsp. Vanilla Extract

Instructions:
For cake: Pre-heat oven to 375˚F. Grease 15”x10” jelly-roll pan, line with parchment paper; grease and flour paper. Sprinkle a thin, cotton kitchen towel with powdered sugar.
*Combine flour, baking powder, baking soda, cinnamon, pumpkin pie spice and salt in a small bowl.
*Beat eggs and sugar in a large mixing bowl until thick. Beat in pumpkin. Stir in flour mixture.
*Spread evenly in prepared pan, sprinkle with nuts.
*Bake 13-15 minutes or until top of cake springs back when touched.

For Filling: Beat cream cheese, powdered sugar, butter and vanilla extract in a small bowl until smooth.
*Once cake is done, immediately loosen cake and turn it onto the prepared towel.
*Carefully peel off paper. Roll up cake and towel together, starting with the narrow end. Cool on wire rack.
*Carefully unroll the cooled cake, remove the towel. Spread the filling evenly over the cake. Reroll the cake and wrap it in plastic wrap. Place in refrigerator for at least one hour.
*Before serving, remove plastic wrap, sprinkle with powdered sugar, slice and enjoy.

National Estate Planning Awareness

National Estate Planning Awareness Week is here! It’s a reminder about drawing up the most important
document of your life: An estate plan that protects your interests and your loved ones.

It’s never too early to give yourself peace of mind by ensuring a thoughtful estate plan is in place. An estate plan can include a will or a trust, or both. It can detail beneficiary designations, like those you created for your bank account, retirement account, or life insurance. And it should include powers
of attorney for your finances and your healthcare decisions; in the event you become incapacitated. An estate plan is also a smart way to shape your legacy and support the causes you love, like Trinity Woods. You can make a gift directly from your will or explore other planned gift options that may be a better
fit for your situation. You can even make your gift in honor or in memory of a loved one.

With a simple plan to secure your legacy, you can make an incredible difference.

As a valued partner of our organization, there is a complimentary estate planning service available to you. To get started or update your estate plan, contact Bonnie Polak at 918-346-6639 to set up a time to
meet with our Legacy Office.

National Mental Health Awareness Month: How Happiness Happens

By Lupina Fry, Wellness Nurse

Happiness and mental health are deeply connected. Good mental health fosters happiness by enhancing one’s ability to manage stress and experience positive emotions.

Happiness promotes mental health by encouraging healthy behaviors, fostering strong social connections, and positively influencing physiological systems, such as the cardiovascular and immune systems. Essentially, feeling happy supports overall well-being, leading to greater satisfaction, a more
fulfilling life, healthier habits, increased appreciation for life and daily living, and ultimately, a sense of happiness, creating a perpetual positive feedback loop.

When individuals have good mental health, they are better equipped to cope with daily stressors and life’s challenges – basically they are more likely to experience positive emotions more frequently. Having good resilience, a strong support system, and the confidence to rely on others, allow people to manage daily obstacles and continue to experience happiness. A person with a positive outlook on life and a tendency towards optimism also tends to have greater happiness and life satisfaction.

For decades, researchers have sought to understand the predictors of happiness. Some believed it was due to genetic or inherited factors, while others believed it was a result of strictly environmental factors, such as financial stability, education, and an active lifestyle – both were true! Happiness is formed,
as a whole, by the general interactions between internal and external factors.

When people feel happy, they are more likely to engage in healthy habits and behaviors like exercising and eating well, and less likely to engage in unhealthy ones like substance abuse and neglect. Happiness also fosters better relationships, which help buffer against loneliness, stress, depression, and other mental health struggles. Those positive emotions enhance the body’s physiological systems, improving cardiovascular health and immune response, thereby making individuals less susceptible to illness. A positive outlook can help reduce stress and protect the body from its detrimental effects, ultimately contributing to improved long-term mental and physical health.

By prioritizing mental health and cultivating good habits that promote happiness you can create a positive feedback loop that enhances both your emotional well-being and overall quality of life.

Here are 25 things to get you on the road to making your happiness happen!
1.Go for a walk outside.
2. Do a random act of kindness.
3. Sing or dance to your favorite song.
4. Smell your favorite flower, food or scent.
5. Do something in nature.
6. Smile at everyone you see.
7. Volunteer to help someone.
8. Complement five people today.
9. Donate items to the Treasure Chest.
10. Leave a positive review of your favorite restaurant or business.
11. Thank a staff member for being helpful.
12. Enjoy a meal with someone you haven’t seen in a while.
13. Count how many times you say Thank You in a day.
14. Make a date with a friend.
15. Send a handwritten note to someone you love.
16. Go to a Happy Hour!
17. Host a potluck dinner for friends.
18. Savor the moments that make you feel good.
19. Really enjoy a tasty bite of pie.
20. Take time to appreciate the colors of a sunrise or sunset.
21. Sit outside and feel the wind on your face.
22. Enjoy the smell of a good cup of coffee.
23. Turn off the TV and enjoy the quiet.
24. Write daily in a gratitude journal.
25. Exercise for at least ten minutes today.

This is just a small list. Get out there and create your own happiness. It’s contagious, it feels good, and we all need it!

October STARS Employee of the Month

Tawana Amey, CMA – Health Center

Start Date: August 2024
Born: Los Angeles, CA
Raised: Okmulgee, OK
Wanted to be as a Kid: A Lawyer
One Meal Forever: Fried Chicken
Described by Friends: Loving, Caring, Funny, Life of the Party
First Job: Working with Adults with Disabilities
Favorite Holiday: Christmas
First Car: Ford Pinto
Family Recipe: Sweet Potato Pie
Favorite Movie: The Notebook
Collects: Butterflies and Candles
Free Time: Shopping and Spending Time with Grandkids
Fun Fact: Loves to Sing
Family: Married with Three Children
What her supervisor says: “Tawana is known for her willingness to do whatever is asked of her by our residents, always with a smile and a caring heart. She goes above and beyond by planning parties and events that bring extra joy and create lasting memories, making life at Trinity Woods
truly special.” – Cecile Coleman, Household Manager Tawana

The Power of Positive Thinking in the Midst of Life’s Changes

By Weldon Tisdale, VP of Wellness and Chaplain

As October paints our campus in warm hues of amber and gold, we’re reminded that change is not only inevitable, it’s beautiful. The falling leaves, the crisp air, and the shifting light all whisper a truth we know well: life moves in seasons. And in every season, especially those filled with transition, the power of positive thinking becomes a lifeline of faith, hope, and resilience.

Change can stir uncertainty. Change can trigger frustration. Whether it’s a new health journey, a shift in routine, or the bittersweet goodbye to a longtime spouse, friend or member, transitions often challenge our sense of stability. But Scripture reminds us that our foundation is not in circumstances but in
Christ. The prophet Isaiah writes, “You will keep in perfect peace all who trust in you, all whose thoughts are fixed on you.” Isaiah 26:3 (NLT)

When our thoughts are fixed on God and anchored in His promises, we find peace that defies logic or as the Apostle Paul describes in Philippians 4:7, “…peace which surpasses all understanding…” Positive thinking, rooted in faith, helps us see beyond the moment and into the greater story God is writing.

Positive thinking isn’t about ignoring hardship; it’s about choosing joy in the midst of it. It’s the decision to say, “God is still good,” even when the path ahead is unclear. It’s the quiet strength that smiles at tomorrow because we know Who holds it.

For Trinity Woods residents, this might mean embracing new friendships, trying a new activity, or simply waking up with gratitude. For our staff, it’s the daily choice to serve in the spirit of Christ – with compassion, patience, and a heart full of grace.

At Trinity Woods, we are more than residents and staff, we are a family. And families walk through change together. Let’s continue to be a place where encouragement flows freely, where laughter
echoes through the corridors and halls, and where faith lights the way forward. Choose to eliminate all semblances of negative thoughts and words and choose to focus on “the goodness of God.”

As the leaves fall and the season turns, may we hold fast to the truth that God is with us in every change. His love never fades, His grace never fails, and His plans are always good.

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